Hi James
After all the plumbing, piping, transport etc it has probably come in at under 4.5k, but I have done all the work myself!
Combining it with an existing heating system is not such a problem if you remember that it needs a gravity heat dump radiator so that the boiler does not overheat. (If you have a look at the Rayburn suggestion for the heating system it is a lot easier to understand.... http://www.rayburn-web.co.uk/raytech/chtg2.htm).
The technical pages on the Rayburn site answer most questions so it is probably a good staring place ...this is for the 345w which is the wood only burning model we have... http://www.rayburn-web.co.uk/raytech/default.htm.
There are other wood burning stoves so have a look at the main site for them... http://rayburn-web.co.uk/index.asp
Have fun
wood troll